The world of online dating is deceptive in every sense of the word. Meeting a suitable partner on a dating app can even feel harder than finding a needle in a haystack. No wonder, people are falling prey to toxic dating trends from ghosting , breadcrumbing , orbiting, to catfishing. The latest one on the block is ego-scrolling . So, what exactly is it? Let's dive into this new trend.
What is ego-scrolling?As the name suggests, ego-scrolling is swiping through dating apps with an aim to seek validation without any intention of forming a meaningful connection. People who ego-scroll may ghost you the moment their ego is fed, act interested then withdraw, love bomb briefly before disappearing, or do not engage with you at all after swiping.
The entire intention of ego-scrolling is to get a high out of validation, compliments and feeling desired.
While people who are ego-scrolling may be doing it for fun, social gratification, and self-worth validation, this toxic trend may leave people looking for serious relationships frustrated and disappointed.
Jordan Pickell, a trauma and relationship therapist , told USA Today that ego-scrolling “lowers the stakes around rejection, loneliness and the wanting to be desired.”
“You’re window shopping, and you don’t have any intention of going into the store," she says.
Why do people ego-scrollPeople may do this out of loneliness, stress, or unhappiness. Many people in today's times may feel invisible, and ego-scrolling could help them get validation from someone who seem attractive or desirable.
In some cases, ego-scrolling could be less about connection and more about control. The ability to swipe, match, and attract attention offers a quick ego boost, a sense of being wanted, without any emotional risk. It's a form of escapism where dating apps become less about love and more about self-soothing, often at the expense of someone else's feelings.
How 'ego-scrollers' can avoid hurting feelingsIf you find yourself ego-scrolling, it's important to acknowledge your intentions and communicate them clearly. While is not wrong to seek a little validation now and then, but honesty goes a long way. Let your matches know you're not looking for anything serious to avoid leading them on.
Here are things to remember Be honest: If you are not looking for something serious, it is important to make this clear to people you are communicating with. Transparency prevents confusion and disappointment.
Respect: Remember, the people on the other side of the screen have their own feelings and vulnerabilities. Treat them with the same respect you would want.
Don't lead on: Don't engage in constant chats or flirtations if you have no intention of meeting or forming a real connection. It's better to disengage politely than to keep someone hanging.
A little empathy can turn a toxic habit into a more mindful and respectful experience for everyone involved.
What is ego-scrolling?As the name suggests, ego-scrolling is swiping through dating apps with an aim to seek validation without any intention of forming a meaningful connection. People who ego-scroll may ghost you the moment their ego is fed, act interested then withdraw, love bomb briefly before disappearing, or do not engage with you at all after swiping.
The entire intention of ego-scrolling is to get a high out of validation, compliments and feeling desired.
While people who are ego-scrolling may be doing it for fun, social gratification, and self-worth validation, this toxic trend may leave people looking for serious relationships frustrated and disappointed.
Jordan Pickell, a trauma and relationship therapist , told USA Today that ego-scrolling “lowers the stakes around rejection, loneliness and the wanting to be desired.”
“You’re window shopping, and you don’t have any intention of going into the store," she says.
Why do people ego-scrollPeople may do this out of loneliness, stress, or unhappiness. Many people in today's times may feel invisible, and ego-scrolling could help them get validation from someone who seem attractive or desirable.
In some cases, ego-scrolling could be less about connection and more about control. The ability to swipe, match, and attract attention offers a quick ego boost, a sense of being wanted, without any emotional risk. It's a form of escapism where dating apps become less about love and more about self-soothing, often at the expense of someone else's feelings.
How 'ego-scrollers' can avoid hurting feelingsIf you find yourself ego-scrolling, it's important to acknowledge your intentions and communicate them clearly. While is not wrong to seek a little validation now and then, but honesty goes a long way. Let your matches know you're not looking for anything serious to avoid leading them on.
Here are things to remember Be honest: If you are not looking for something serious, it is important to make this clear to people you are communicating with. Transparency prevents confusion and disappointment.
Respect: Remember, the people on the other side of the screen have their own feelings and vulnerabilities. Treat them with the same respect you would want.
Don't lead on: Don't engage in constant chats or flirtations if you have no intention of meeting or forming a real connection. It's better to disengage politely than to keep someone hanging.
A little empathy can turn a toxic habit into a more mindful and respectful experience for everyone involved.
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