Heard of 'pink flags' in a relationship? Here's why they can be potential deal-breakers (and what you need to look out for)

Most of us are aware of the fiercely 'stay away from' red flags in a relationship - abuse, anger, lack of respect etc. And then of course, are the quintessential 'green flags' that dreams are made up of. However, are you aware that apart from these two, there are also some 'pink flags' in a relationship? These pink flags are in essence subtler than red flags, and might seem miniscule initially, but have the potential to turn into deal breakers in the long run. While it is upto you to accept someone with these attributes or not, here are signs you should look out for to know if someone is a pink flag...


You have different love languages
If you and your partner express love differently, it can feel like a disconnect, that can grow over time. For example, if one partner values physical affection while the other prefers acts of service, it might create tension. This is a pink flag because it doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed—it just requires effort to understand and meet each other’s emotional needs.

One of you avoid conflicts
Some couples pride themselves on “never fighting,” but this can actually be a pink flag. Avoiding conflict altogether might mean that one or both partners are suppressing their feelings or avoiding difficult conversations. Over time, unresolved issues can build up and lead to resentment.

Being friends with an ex
If your partner maintains a friendship with their ex, it might make you uncomfortable. While this isn’t necessarily a red flag, it’s understandable to feel uneasy about the situation. The key is understanding the nature of their relationship and whether boundaries are being respected.

Different life goals
Having different goals—such as one partner wanting kids while the other doesn’t—can be a significant pink flag. These differences don’t automatically mean the relationship won’t work, but they do require serious discussion to ensure compatibility in the long term.

You don't communicate very well
Poor communication is one of the most common pink flags in relationships . If your partner struggles to express their thoughts or avoids meaningful conversations, it can create misunderstandings and distance between you.


What should one do?
As explained earlier, pink flags are not necessarily deal breakers, but they are an object of concern. To navigate through these with someone you otherwise really care about, it is important to look beyond these hiccups and love the person for who she/he is. This apart, you should learn to openly communicate with your partner and set boundaries on what is acceptable or not to you in the long run. At the end of the day, it is best to listen to your inner voice on what you need to do.